the reason why love is hard to understand is not because it is not ever possible to truly understand what other people's thoughts, feelings, mood. so basicly we need to communicate to allow our loved ones and ourselves to be able to understand each other.
and there is no possible way to be able to perfectly understand others because you are not them. but we still can receive hints of what they are feeling and thinking by the small gestures. people who are in love tends to be exceptionally observant in the early segment of their relationship because of this. however, as the relationship deepens, it gradualy wanes until we feel hurt or realise it and then raise it again.
which is why communication is very very very important in relationship
the emotional roler coaster ride of love and relationship is complex due to the complexity of human mind. and therefore, a relationship that never see pain of conflict is often not a true relationship.
Quote:From what I can tell, HUMANS (be they male or female) are selfish creatures most of the time, yet we are also capable of so much beauty and good, especially when in love.
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